here's my opinion first!
this server is good because it has a few limit like in retail, and most of the features is working, but, one lack!
99% (not all) the players in AION who turn back from the retail server to a private server is because they just get bored of their character's condition, wether it is an equipment problem or something else, i'm not one of them but i almost become one!
here's the thing, i suggest you guys to enable all the quest that rewarded an equipment or the titles!
and here i help you for the limitation!
for equip don't enable the miragents and fenrirs
for the titles don't enable the heroic, fenrir's fang, and miragent holly templar.
that's all i hope it's not confusing you!